You Don’t Have to Heal to Find True Love *
* Plus the REAL Reason You Haven’t Found It Yet

Fractured and strong, your beautiful heart is a Love magnet.

I’ve read so many features on finding love I could (and probably should) write the book at this point. As a work-for-hire writer, I can be a tad mercenary but on doling out love advice, I think what I have to say is a public service announcement and therefore is freely given. My commentary is a personal one based on over six decades living on the planet.

Here’s the thing about Love: Love doesn’t really care, even quality soul-mate love, if you are healed or otherwise woke. Love will take you on as imperfect as you are.

Unlike the rest of us, Love is far less judgmental and it can be simple-minded in its fairness. Agreed, the chances of finding quality or soulmate love are higher if you are more self-aware because then that inner shopping list and emotional instinct we all are blessed with is more honed. That, in itself is a wonderful romantic North Star GPS. But honestly? Love could care less about you being ‘healed’ or otherwise perfect because it’s a heat seeking missile that just goes after the pure wonderful essence in all of us.

I used to worry that my ‘attachment style’ would draw or repel a love interest and there’s love podcasts on this stuff to make you think that’s true. Until one day I realized — when it was right, the right person…